Monday, June 29, 2015

Baby Fred - 33 Weeks!

Millie snuck her tail into this picture!
Date:
June 29, 2015 - My Birthday!!

How far along:
 33 Weeks!!
How many weeks to go: 
7 Weeks!

Baby size:
Pineapple
4.2-5.8 lbs (but we know now that the baby may be close to 6lb by this point.
17.8-18.7 inches

Baby milestones: 
Baby is keeping her eyes open while awake and starting to coordinate breathing with sucking and swallowing. 

Maternity clothes: 
Yes - and my belly is hanging out of some of those even!

Stretch marks: 
Negative (I know it could still happen, but I just kind of think my body is meant to be big, so it was prepared for this - or something! haha)

Belly button in or out: 
I think it is more out than in these days...

Symptoms: 
Random tightening of the belly and my heart beats like crazy at times... My pubic bones started hurting on Saturday morning and my back hurts pretty much whenever I'm not sitting down, but it could be worse.

Food cravings: 
Nothing specific that I can think of...

Movement:
Quite a bit of movement. Baby goes crazy in there every once in a while - especially after I eat.

Labor signs: 
Nope

Mood: 
Good - Just let myself get too tired at times.

Sleep: 
I sleep well after I fall asleep, but there were a few nights where I had just a minor challenge falling asleep. Not as bad as a few of the nights over the last couple weeks, though.

Dreams: 
I had one last Monday night before our ultrasound that I had some blood test done to find out if everything was okay with the baby and when I looked at the results, it said that the baby was a boy... I remember being sad that I knew the gender before the baby was born, so that kind of solidifies our decision to not find out the gender for me. Must have been the right choice! We'll see if my dream was right!

Miss anything: 
Being able to move without feeling like it's a huge effort!

Gender prediction: 
I still think boy but Trent is pretty convinced it's a girl now, I think. He's said it's a girl for a while now, but during our ultrasound last Tuesday, the Ultrasound Tech said "Her" at one point. She says she said "our" and not "her" and that she didn't even know the gender herself, so who knows what the truth is... But that just fueled his fire that it's a girl!

Names: 
Nothing new this week with names.


Best moments of the week: 
Last week was a week full of fun and exciting "best moments"! One of the best moments was seeing our baby last Tuesday during our growth scan. It wasn't quite the same as the 20 week one where you see every part of the baby and they spend a lot of time showing you different things, but she showed us the baby's face and even took some 3D pictures for us! It's so crazy to get to see a little more clearly what our baby is going to look like!! I love looking at the pictures!


My coworkers threw me a surprise baby shower on Tuesday afternoon! I thought I was going to a meeting to talk about asbestos reserve accounts, so I was totally surprised when I got there and all of my past and present coworkers and bosses were all there! They all went together and got us our car seat and a 4moms MamaRoo swing! I am pretty sure my face was red the entire time because I was surprised and embarrased from being the center of attention. It was all so great, though. I really felt so loved!




We also moved our maternity pictures up a week, so we had those taken on Thursday evening. I wasn't 100% sure if I wanted any taken, but I didn't want to regret it if I didn't. I figured I could always just hide them and never let anyone see them if I don't like them! :) I'm glad they are done so I don't have to worry about getting any bigger before taking them! Overall, I'm glad we had them taken and even if I don't love me in all of them, it is nice to have them!! We got the pictures back last night, so I'll share the ones I like in a post later this week. But for now, here's a couple good ones! I had better get them shared before they become old news and we all just want to see pictures of the baby and not of my big belly!!

The best picture we could get of our little family!
The dogs and I also took a quick trip to Westside this weekend. Although it was a little rough being a single parent while being away from home (never a dull moment with Millie around), it was nice to be there and spend some time with my mom! The dogs and I were all exhausted when we got home and spent much of Sunday just resting and recuperating from our little day trip.

Nursery Things:
I didn't really do anything new in the nursery this week, I cleaned everything out in anticipation for taking pictures in there, so now I need to work on getting everything back in there and in it's place!
I did have to buy a set of crib sheets from Target on Wednesday night so we had some on the bed for our pictures. I also ordered some online a few days prior, but since we moved our pictures up, they weren't going to be here on time.
Jared's girlfriend, Kenzie, was nice enough to paint a shelf that I wanted to put in the nursery for me this last weekend, so we can get that hung up along with some frames and things in the near future!
I really had better get moving on getting everything done or the baby's going to be here before we're ready!

Looking forward to: 
Celebrating June birthdays with Trent's family this weekend and celebrating the 4th of July with them. And I'm looking forward to Trent returning on Wednesday as well! :)

Other things: 
Our ultrasound was quite an adventure this time. It was about half as long as the 20 week ultrasound, but I got very light headed at one point, so I rolled over onto my side and Trent fanned my face with a clipboard for a while and the ultrasound tech gave me an ice pack to put on my chest. After I felt better, I rolled back onto my back and we started again. That lasted about another five minutes before I started to get hot and feel sick again and, this time, I threw up in a little barf bag that the ultrasound tech gave me. Fun times! Luckily the ultrasound was almost over by that time, so that was the end of all the excitement.
We found out during our ultrasound that our baby is looking like she's around 5lb 7oz right now. I don't remember what percentile the baby was in, but at our appointment on Wednesday, the doctor started throwing around scheduling a C section if the baby gets to be too big. I, of course, got upset because that's totally not part of "the plan." If a C section is necessary to keep the baby safe, then that's fine, but I'm not comfortable with going through major surgery without even trying to birth our baby naturally! God gave me big hips for a reason and I am completely confident in my body's ability to birth big babies! No one here is shocked that our baby is on the big side! I am pretty sure that our doctor was just trying to prepare us for what may come, but it still made me upset at first.
I feel much better about it now :) One of my friends and coworkers sent me a blog post that I really liked and it really drove home the point that I can't let the pressure of one day's plan overshadow the miracle of a lifetime! I totally trust and have faith that everything will happen how it's supposed to happen!
We see our new doctor next week for the first time, the one who will be delivering our baby, so we will see what she says about the whole thing. We also have to go back for another growth scan when I'm around 36 weeks and then we'll know more about what the baby's size will be closer to delivery. We also had a good talk with our birth class instructor and she had some good advice on how to handle the whole situation, so I'm definitely feeling more at ease about the whole situation for the time being.
Besides telling us that the baby is big, baby's heartbeat was 147 during the ultrasound on Tuesday and "in the 140s" at our appointment on Wednesday. My fundal height was at 36 weeks this week.

Saturday, June 27, 2015

Catch Up Post - In Pictures!

Since I'm way behind on anything unbaby related, I'm just going to do one picture overloaded post to catch up on everything that's happened (at least everything that I have a picture of) that I haven't already blogged about since the last part of March.
So here it goes! 

March 20, Joce and I went to Lincoln to a Sam Hunt concert with her two Michelle friends. It was a great concert!

On March 26, I went to the Assure Women's Center annual Fundraising Dinner with my bestie Lauren. Lauren works at the Women's Center a few times a month and it is something she's very passionate about and I was very happy to be able to support her! It was a great program and dinner.
(This is the best I've got for a picture)

 On March 27, Trent, Jocelyn, Danielle and I went to a fish fry at Mary Our Queen. We stood in line for around 3 hours but had a fun time while doing it! The fish and other food wasn't half bad either :)

On April 12, we traveled to Des Moines to celebrate the upcoming arrival of my cousin Tricia's little baby boy who will be joining us at the end of July. Tricia and I were born 8 days apart, so it's pretty neat that our children will be close in age as well!

This cute picture happened on April 12 as well :)

 On April 20, I joined Jocelyn and a bunch of her friends out for supper at Stokes for her birthday!

Millie was still cute on the 28th of April!

On May 2, Lauren, Bailey and I traveled to Hickman, NE for a diaper shower for our dear friend Mallory who's first little baby boy, Ben Allen, just graced the world with his presence last week!  

May 8th (and into the 9th) was a special evening!! We went to the Garth Brooks concert here in Omaha. Trent got to experience his first country concert as well (and his ear drums didn't even burst!!).

On May 10, Mother's Day! Trent's parents came to visit us. As usual, they helped us tackle a few projects around the house. They brought along the crib that Trent's mom had repainted and his dad had reinforced, Trent's mom helped me to wallpaper the nursery closet, and Trent and his dad did some work outside. We did have some down time, too, in between all the work we did!
Millie was happy about the way the nursery was coming along!

On May 17, our family gave out scholarships, The Davey Kock Ag Scholarship for seniors going on to study something ag related and the Davey Kock Memorial Scholarship for the senior girls' basketball players, at AWV's graduation in memory of my dad for the third year.

Trent and I spent from May 22 to May 25 in Kansas City shopping and eating and swimming and eating and watching movies and eating and exploring and just having a good time!

Trent took off on May 27 to go Hiking up in Wisconsin with his dad. It was meant to be about a 6 night excursion, but all the rain they had gotten in the area made it pretty hard for them to do what they had set out to do. They ended up returning a little early (which was okay with me!). Here's a picture that Trent's mom sent me the night before they left of Trent and his dad going through all the stuff in their packs!

On June 6, I had white sauce from Pizza Hut for the first time in probably 5 or 6 years at least. It was amazing!

Millie's biological sister Maisie (Trent's sister's family's dog) spent the week of June 8-12 with us at our house. Both girls seemed to love getting to spend that much time together. Millie slept a lot in the days after Maisie went home! Here's a picture I took before leaving for work one morning - I'm sure they just chat away all day while they're in their kennels!
Mattie enjoys all the treats she gets by hanging around the puppies, but she makes sure to keep her distance as well!

As soon as Maisie left, Millie's attention was right back to Mattie!

On June 13, we made a family trip to DQ to get some Blizzards! Millie ended up in what looked like a not-so-comfortable position... 


On June 14, Trent and I went to Union Pacific's Family Day at the CWS where we had lunch and then took a tour of the Heritage Fleet. It started raining, so we didn't stick around too long, but it was a nice little outing.


To celebrate Father's Day and the fact that our baby is super lucky to have the "Best Papa Ever," we gave Trent's dad a shirt that made sure that everyone that saw him would know it!

June 21 was one of the rare occasions where our family was all together at the same time, so my mom made sure we got a picture of it!

I know there are a lot of other fun things that have happened in the last 3 months, but this will just have to do... I consider myself caught up :)

Friday, June 26, 2015

Baby Fred - 32 Weeks!

Since I'm posting this so late in the week, there are a lot of things that have happened since the official 32 week mark, but to make it "real" for when I go back and read this later, I'm saving those things until next week! So, some of you know how some of these things turn out already that I write about in here, but you'll just have to read about it again next week!

Date:
June 22, 2015 - Trent's Birthday!!

How far along:
32 Weeks!!

How many weeks to go: 
8 Weeks!

Baby size:
Squash
About 3.8 lb
Almost 17 inches long

Baby milestones: 
Baby should be in the head down position now (she is) and getting ready for her decent into the world even though birth is likely still 2 months away. She's probably feeling pretty cramped in there - I try to think about sitting up more these days, which will hopefully give her some more room in there!! She will gain a third to half of her weight in the next few weeks - about a half a pound a week.


Maternity clothes: 
Yep! Same 10 shirt rotation! :) 

Stretch marks: 
Not yet - but probably should try to be better about putting on my Belly Balm... not that it probably would help if the stretch marks are imminent

Have you started to show yet: 
Of course! I have pretty much outgrown Trent's T-shirts now as well. My belly hangs out the bottom even when I'm standing up now...

Belly button in or out: 
Getting closer and closer to an outie!

Symptoms: 
Having occasional breathing problems at night still and my feet are puffy - probably from all the walking on Friday. I also feel like I have to pee when I walk all the time... even when I KNOW I don't. Not a big fan!

Food cravings: 
Nothing really...

Movement:
Feeling quite a bit of movement these days.

Labor signs: 
Nothing "real" I don't think

Sleep: 
Once I get to sleep, it's not so bad, but sometimes falling asleep is not so great because something feels uncomfortable or I am all up in my head about trying to breath comfortably.

Miss anything: 
Being able to move without feeling like it's a huge effort!

Gender prediction: 
Thinking boy, but I don't really know!

Names: 
I think we're getting pretty close to having a top boy and girl name... or at least we have some very strong contenders. I think if we had to decide today, we would be able to say what the name is. There's still quite a few options for middle names floating around, though.

Best moments of the week: 
Only working 4 days last week and spending Friday at the Walnut Antique Show with Trent's family. We also got to spend Friday evening and Saturday morning with Trent's parents and do a little early Father's day celebration with Trent's dad.
I got a few naps in on Friday afternoon and Saturday morning (it was needed after Friday's adventures) and then went to the pool for a little while with Lauren on Saturday afternoon.
We made a quick trip home on Sunday to celebrate Trent, Kellsey, and I's June birthdays, eat some Pizza Ranch, watch Alex play basketball, and have a little family time!
 
It was nice to have a three day weekend, but I needed another day to help me to recover!

Nursery Things:
The shelf is up in the closet, the baby's clothes are hanging up (even though they all have to be taken down to be washed still), and the navy totes have found their home on top of the shelf! With the great help of his dad, Trent got the shelf up this weekend and it's so fun to start really putting things away where they belong!


Looking forward to: 
Seeing our baby through ultrasound on Tuesday and our appointment on Wednesday. Hopefully everything goes well...
Not looking forward to Trent leaving again on Friday! Boo! I think it should be the last time before the baby comes, though!